Episode 174 - If He Really Loved Me

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Have you ever had this thought?

"If he really loved me..."

Take a second to consider how you've finished that sentence in the past. (Feel free to share, I'd love to hear!)

Now I want you to ask yourself what you are really wanting in that moment.

Are you wanting some confirmation about his affection? Are you just wanting more help? Are you wanting to spend a night out connecting with him?

"If he really loved me" keeps us distracted from what we're really wanting and needing in our marriages. It keeps us justifying arbitrary rules instead of getting busy with some open and vulnerable communication.

I've tossed the "if he really loved me" rules out.

You can, too.

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