Welcome to The Glow Community
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Hack Your Brain
Stop beating yourself up when you don’t do the thing you wanted to do and learn why it happened. Whether that’s three hours scrolling on your phone, eating half a box of cookies, or snapping at your kids. It’s not about self-control, it’s about self-awareness.
(And the shame spiral isn’t helping, either.)
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Understand Your Husband
So many of our issues come from the insane idea that we’re supposed to operate the same, that there’s some gold standard of how to behave. Your husband is a unique individual and probably in many ways about as different from you as he can be. Instead of being frustrated, you’re going to see your differences as your best asset as a couple.
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Love Your Life
Everybody can buy into a life that you love. Not a life that you can manage or that you can get by with. Learn to dream big and see how it lights up everyone around you.
What's Inside
WEEKLY LIVE GROUP COACHING
You got the concepts but want help applying them to your specific situation? We have calls every week where you can come on and get coached live OR listen to others and see the tools in action. Either way you will come out inspired.
MONTHLY TOPIC CALL
Want to keep growing but need some guidance? We alternate between Marriage and Life calls–balancing all areas that make us Glow. One month we might work on our intimate lives and the next we’re redesigning our schedules. Monthly workbooks help you get even more out of these topic calls.
COMMUNITY
Get support and troubleshoot with other growth-oriented women who are showing up in their lives in a totally new way. The community is run on Slack, NOT social media, so you don’t end up scrolling for hours every time you check in. Accessible by desktop or mobile device.
VIDEO VAULT
Want to look back at past topics, like how to stop scrolling on your phone, love your intimate life, or improve your relationships? Past topic calls are available to you to browse and replay at any time.
PRIVATE MEMBER PODCAST
Sometimes life is too busy to log in. That’s not a problem. As a Glow Community member, you get access to our members-only podcast where all call recordings are posted. Listen as you run errands, do carpool, or go for a run (especially fabulous for Pesach cleaning and sefirah!)
COACHING
Glow Community members get first pick when private coaching spots with Kayla open up. This is a totally optional but amazing opportunity to go even deeper in all the work you do here in the program, or to add on external accountability.
My Bonus Gifts to You
WHEN YOU JOIN THE GLOW COMMUNITY,
YOU ALSO GET INSTANT ACCESS TO MY TWO ONLINE COURSES:
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Time Management for Jewish Women
The typical time management systems just aren’t made for busy Jewish women. In this course, I teach you how to know if you need to step back and design a schedule, a week, or a project, and how to do it simply and easily. Leave the overwhelm and panic behind and enjoy your time again.
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Self Coaching Fundamentals
You are your own best coach. I’ll show you how. Learn my simple system for self-coaching and you will be able to apply these tools to any problem. The more you do it, the better you get, until this simply becomes the way you think.
STARTING AT
$49/MONTH
No enrollment cost!
Auto billed each month
Cancel any time
You’ll be charged $49 when you join and again on that calendar date each month. As long as you are enrolled you have access to all calls, the members-only podcast, and the online courses and study vault.
A happier brain one month at a time
“Kayla, I just wanted to express my overflowing gratitude for everything that you’ve taught me. I function differently after learning the material you’ve taught. I can’t believe I’ve gone my whole life not knowing all this!
I see what a difference it feels like to be in my brain now compared to when we first started, and it’s amazing. You’re right, you can’t ‘unlearn’ this stuff! I hope iyH to take this awareness with me wherever I go, and to only keep growing from it all. Thank you, thank you, thank you.”
Hi, I'm Kayla
I’ve spent the last six years coaching hundreds of women on making their lives better — starting with their marriages.
Having everything right “on paper” — you are both basically good people and compatible — doesn’t really matter when you feel disconnected, frustrated, or anxious.
Positive self-talk, getting support from a friend, and listening to classes all have their place, but if you feel that you’re spinning in the same cycles of negativity (INCLUDING judging yourself for not “just being happy!”) you’re in the right place.
I help women develop deep connection, authentic connection, and confidence so they can have the marriage — and the life — of their dreams.
Managing your mind and loving your marriage doesn’t require PhD-level information, tons of hard work, or massive amounts of willpower. It requires some love for yourself, willingness to try something new, and a few minutes a day.
You’ll never look back.
You ready to join us?
-Kayla
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Who is this course for?This course is for newly married Jewish women who have been married for at least a month by the course start date. This will give you time to calm down from the excitement of the wedding and have the headspace to focus on the course!
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What is the schedule?This program was designed to make sure that no matter what your schedule you'll get what you need. Each week you'll get access to the next class in the course so altogether it'll take you a minimum of 8 weeks to work through the course. I went back and forth on whether to just give you full access off the bat, but I think that taking a week to digest and apply the material will truly take this from an intellectual exercise to something that makes a real-life impact on your marriage. You have access to the material and community for as long as I continue to run this program.
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What if I’m not in my first year of marriage anymore?This course is designed to be a space where we can focus on the transition that is unique to newlyweds, so that will always be my focus and priority. AND... according to Rabbi Akiva Tatz, shana rishona now takes 10 years to “accomplish” what it once took only one! If you’re still in a newlywed headspace (or interested in revisiting it), you’re welcome to join. Many women tell me they feel they missed out on shana rishona (work/school schedules, difficult life events, Corona, to name a few) and I fully believe you can re-do shana rishona whenever you're ready. Because this course is the storehouse for the best of all my research and coaching experience about marriage, many women choose to take the course despite being married for much longer. I think that's a beautiful thing. If you're a married Jewish woman who's looking for more general life coaching, The Glow Community is the place for you!
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I’m getting married really really soon! Can't I just start already?Trust me, you have enough on your mind right now just getting ready for your wedding and settling into your new life. As much as I’d love to work with you right away, I know the best thing for YOU is to use this course AFTER the initial flurry of excitement has calmed and you’re in more of a “real world” life situation. Join us when you've hit (at least) your one month anniversary!
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Things are going great so far– do I really need this course?This course is about having the best marriage possible. For some women, that means dealing with some bigger struggles, and for others it’s more about fine-tuning and dreaming big. With that said, sometimes it’s not the marriage itself but everything ELSE that could use some attention– your work life or the in-laws or money–that you would like to work on. If the description is resonating with you and you are excited to invest in your marriage, I recommend you sign up.
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What if I already took the First Year Married Course?While the main topics are the same, this is a totally updated and redesigned version of FYM, gaining from my experience over the last several years of teaching this material and working closely with married women. There's also a brand new masterclass on Communication and an online community. If you're up for another round, I’d love to have you join us again! (If you have taken THIS version of the course--starting Winter 2024 and on--you have lifetime access. For any trouble accessing the course, just reach out through the contact form on this site or by email.)
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How long will I have access to the course?You have access to the course for as long as I'm running the program. (In the internet world, that's called "lifetime access.") Though I'm not currently planning on it, if I ever choose to take it down, I will make sure you have plenty of notice to work through or review any material you need.
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I’m not a newlywed but I love this coaching stuff. Is this for me?If you’re not a newlywed, I recommend you check out my advanced coaching community, How to Glow, where we use this material to grow and improve in all aspects of our lives as married Jewish women. (However, if you're wanting to get all my best research and tools for marriage, you can always start here--or with both!)
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Will this program work with my internet filter?This program works with most filters, sometimes with some inital setup (ie, asking for certain sites to be opened). If you can access this page, you should be fine. You'll also get access to a call-in number where you can listen to the classes by phone.
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Does my enrollment include my husband?There is something very powerful about working on your marriage on your own–it allows you to see your own behavior and reality in a new way, which is why this is not designed to be a couples’ program. However, you absolutely can share what you're learning, your takeaways, or simply use the ideas as conversation starters with your husband!
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Is this course only for Orthodox Jewish women?This course is built upon a Torah framework of marriage with aligned outside sources from both the marriage and coaching worlds. I believe that marriage is both a tremendous gift AND a place for personal development--which means personal satisfaction is not always the #1 goal. Women from any level of observance are welcome to join the program. If you're unsure if you will feel comfortable or the values are aligned with yours, feel free to reach out through the contact form on the site and I'll do my best to help you make the right decision for you.
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Can I give the course as a gift to someone?Absolutely! When you go to the payment page, you'll be given the option to send the course as a gift. Way to go on being an awesome gift-giver!
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I’m a kallah teacher/Rebbetzin/seminary teacher and I’m on board with your mission! How can I help?Thank you! Please help by spreading the word to your former students, email lists, and WhatsApp groups–wherever you communicate! If you’d like a flyer, you can reach out to jessie@kaylalevin.com for something easy to send.
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I’m a kallah teacher/Rebbetzin/seminary teacher and I want to learn this material so I can teach it to my kallahs. Can I take the course?Absolutely! I’d be honored to have you in the course, but please hear me out on one thing–it’s so so so important that women are given the message that the main work happens AFTER they are married. You know better than I do how distracted and idealistic a kallah is. It’s very hard to truly believe all this material will be personally relevant. Once they are “in the ring” and dealing with the day-to-day realities, they can apply this work on a whole new level (plus, they aren’t left feeling like they failed because they didn’t get a picture perfect happily-ever-after right off the bat!). I leave it to your judgment what to include in your classes, what to “tease,” and what not to–and I hope you’ll encourage your kallahs to plan to take this course as a first step into a lifetime of growth and learning about improving her shalom bayis.