Want to make the most of shana rishona?
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Here's what my newlyweds tell me: Everything is SO RIGHT---great girl, great guy, no major "issues"--and yet this whole being married thing is so tough!!

What they haven't been told yet is that being a newlywed is supposed to be a challenge. It's not hard like, "there's something urgently wrong here" hard. It's hard like, "amazing workout but also a little sore" hard.

I mean think about it--is there any other life transition this big? It's not just the marriage--even though that's HUGE--it's also a new home, new routines, very often new job, maybe even new city or country or CONTINENT... why would anyone ever think it would be easy?

We don't do big things without a plan and preparation. Your marriage is no different. That's why the First Year Married course is here.

I've walked HUNDREDS of women through the newlywed stage and while I can't promise it'll always be easy, you CAN make sure all your hard work is paying off in a real way--building a strong marriage, a life you love, and some A+ personal development while you're at it.

Your course starts the moment you sign up.

The First Year
Married Program

In this program, you’ll be learning new ways of looking at your marriage, at men, and at love. You’ll also have a chance to send in your questions and get personal (and anonymous) support.

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Master Your Mind

It might sound strange to start a marriage class with focusing on your mindset--after all, there's SO MUCH to discuss--but the truth is, without this self awareness we'll always be in victim mode, feeling stuck. Getting your head in the right space is more than positive mantras, but it's also very simple and do-able.

Beliefs & a New Model

You came into your marriage with a bucket full of thoughts you never chose--ideas about what marriage is supposed to look like, what to expect of your husband, what makes a "good wife"... let's get clear on what actually helps you live your values, which thoughts are getting you stuck, and what to do about them.

But His Socks Are Still on The Floor

In this class, you’re going to get some major lightbulb moments about what makes your husband DO all that STUFF that drives you crazy! (Plus some amazing perks to being married to a man that you might not even realize!) Learn to tap into what REALLY gets him motivated and you'll be bringing so much positivity into your marriage you might start glowing.

Shana Rishona

Until now, life probably gave you a lot of structure, and that included accomplishment, social time, and purposeful activity. Now it's on you to design a lot of that for yourself. Not easy. In this class I'll help you design your first year of marriage to maximize the potential of this year (and actually enjoy yourself while you're at it).

Love It All Up

This week’s class is all about intimacy and unconditional love. I’ll share with you a new way of looking at your connection that will remove the stress or awkwardness so you can focus on truly connecting. As with every week, our anonymous Q&A will give you a chance to ask questions in total privacy.

The Resentment/Self Care Connection

Nobody wants to feel resentful of their husband but if we aren't careful it can creep up on the best of us. Most of the time, we just try to tell him what to do differently so we can feel better. But if that's all you do, you're actually missing out on some important information that could be helping you live a better life.

Communication Masterclass

You don’t need to learn this the hard way! Find out what to do when he’s hurt your feelings, what encourages men to communicate more, what to do when you need to unload, and how to create goal clarity as a couple. This class is PACKED with ideas and extremely practical takeaways.

Navigating the In-Laws

There's nowhere else in life where a person comes as a package deal, but your husband certainly did! Learn how to gracefully navigate a new family culture, understand your in-laws, and set yourself up for a healthy, productive, and meaningful relationship with your newest family members.

"I can not recommend Kayla and this course enough! I want every couple to have access to this information and her way of teaching"

"Kayla offers you incredibly helpful and wise relationship advice that is evidence based. She delivers the information in a super digestible way. There is no question that is off limits. No judgement, no shaming, no embarrassment. The classes are helpful and EMPOWERING and fun! Even if your relationship is already great, she helps you empower yourself to see how it could be even better and stronger. You will not regret signing up!"

Rosie

Course Participant

Who is this course for?

This course is for frum women in their first few years of marriage who want to build a strong, connected, and joyful relationship — not just get by, but really thrive. Whether things are mostly great or you’re already feeling stuck, this course gives you the mindset shifts and practical tools to navigate marriage with confidence, calm, and clarity. It’s especially helpful if you’re someone who wants to be intentional in your marriage, loves personal growth, and values working from the inside out.
What is the schedule?

This program is designed to fit into your life — no matter how full your schedule is. Each week, you’ll get access to the next class in the series. That means the course takes a minimum of 8 weeks to complete, giving you time to absorb and apply each concept at a steady pace. Taking that space between classes turns this from just learning about marriage into actually transforming how you show up in it. You’ll keep access to all the material for as long as the program is active, so you can revisit it anytime you want a refresher or a boost.
What if I’m not in my first year of marriage anymore?

This course was created to support the unique transition of shana rishona — that first season of marriage where everything is new, and the foundation for your future is being built. That will always be the heart of this program. And still... as Rabbi Akiva Tatz explains, what used to take one year can now take closer to ten. If you're still in that newlywed headspace — or want to revisit it with more clarity and intention — you're in the right place. Many women have told me they feel like they “missed” their shana rishona — because of school, work, life events, or even Corona — and they’re ready now to reclaim it. I believe you absolutely can. Even women years into marriage have taken this course and found it deeply impactful — because the work we do here is timeless. If you're looking for more personal support alongside the course, I offer private coaching to help you take this work even deeper.
I’m getting married really really soon! Can't I just start already?

Trust me, you have enough on your mind right now just getting ready for your wedding and settling into your new life. As much as I’d love to work with you right away, I know the best thing for YOU is to use this course AFTER the initial flurry of excitement has calmed and you’re in more of a “real world” life situation. Join us when you've hit (at least) your one month anniversary!
Things are going great so far– do I really need this course?

That’s amazing to hear — and honestly, this course is perfect for you. It’s not just for fixing problems. It’s for women who want to be intentional, build something truly lasting, and create a marriage that gets better year after year. Sometimes the challenges aren’t in the marriage itself, but in the things around it — like family dynamics, money, work stress, or personal expectations. This course helps you build the mindset and tools to navigate all of it with more clarity and confidence. If the message of the course resonates with you and you’re excited to invest in your marriage now, while things are already good — that’s the ideal time to jump in.
How long will I have access to the course?

You have access to the course for as long as I'm running the program. (In the internet world, that's called "lifetime access.") Though I'm not currently planning on it, if I ever choose to take it down, I will make sure you have plenty of notice to work through or review any material you need.
I’m not a newlywed but I love this coaching stuff. Is this for me?

While this course is tailored for newly married Jewish women, many of the principles and tools are valuable at any stage of marriage. If you're interested in accessing this material, you're welcome to enroll in the course. If you're seeking more personalized support, I also offer private coaching sessions. These one-on-one sessions provide individualized guidance to address your unique circumstances and goals. You can learn more about private coaching and schedule a consultation here.
Will this program work with my internet filter?

This program works with most filters, sometimes with some inital setup (ie, asking for certain sites to be opened). If you can access this page, you should be fine. You'll also get access to a call-in number where you can listen to the classes by phone.
Does my enrollment include my husband?

There is something very powerful about working on your marriage on your own–it allows you to see your own behavior and reality in a new way, which is why this is not designed to be a couples’ program. However, you absolutely can share what you're learning, your takeaways, or simply use the ideas as conversation starters with your husband!
Is this course only for Orthodox Jewish women?

This course is grounded in a Torah-based understanding of marriage, integrating insights from both Jewish teachings and contemporary coaching methodologies. It's designed for women who view marriage as both a profound gift and an avenue for personal growth. Women from all levels of observance are warmly welcomed. If you're wondering whether the course aligns with your personal values and beliefs, please don't hesitate to reach out via the contact form on our website. I'm here to assist you in determining if this program is the right fit for your journey.
Can I give the course as a gift to someone?

Absolutely! When you go to the payment page, you'll be given the option to send the course as a gift. Way to go on being an awesome gift-giver!
What if I want more support while I go through the course?

If you’re the kind of person who thrives with more personal guidance, accountability, and someone to talk things through with — you might love adding private coaching to your experience. With coaching, we meet weekly to work through what’s coming up for you in real time, and apply the course material directly to your unique marriage and personality. It’s a powerful way to fast-track your growth and feel fully supported every step of the way. Click here to learn more about private coaching or schedule a free consultation to see if it’s the right fit.
I’m a kallah teacher/Rebbetzin/seminary teacher and I’m on board with your mission! How can I help?

Thank you! Please help by spreading the word to your former students, email lists, and WhatsApp groups–wherever you communicate! If you’d like a flyer, you can reach out to jessie@kaylalevin.com for something easy to send.
I’m a kallah teacher/Rebbetzin/seminary teacher and I want to learn this material so I can teach it to my kallahs. Can I take the course?

Absolutely! I’d be honored to have you in the course, but please hear me out on one thing–it’s so so so important that women are given the message that the main work happens AFTER they are married. You know better than I do how distracted and idealistic a kallah is. It’s very hard to truly believe all this material will be personally relevant. Once they are “in the ring” and dealing with the day-to-day realities, they can apply this work on a whole new level (plus, they aren’t left feeling like they failed because they didn’t get a picture perfect happily-ever-after right off the bat!). I leave it to your judgment what to include in your classes, what to “tease,” and what not to–and I hope you’ll encourage your kallahs to plan to take this course as a first step into a lifetime of growth and learning about improving her shalom bayis.