Personal support for the most important relationship of your life.
Want to know what makes a legendary marriage?
If you’re like I was as a newlywed, you think back on your wedding with a stupid grin, you absolutely LOVE being married, and 90% of the time you’re pretty sure you won the jackpot with your husband.
Being a newlywed is actually really fun, exciting, and surprisingly BUSY.
You care deeply about being a great wife, building something meaningful, and laying a strong foundation for your future family.
But then there’s that 10%…
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You try to force yourself to be the “good wife” — and end up burned out and resentful
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You second-guess how your in-laws see you
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You're quietly frustrated with his choices, values, or general behavior (hello dirty dishes everywhere)
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You’re not sure how to get your needs met, or how to express them without sounding critical
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And maybe… you’re a little nervous about bringing kids into something that still feels wobbly underneath
But hey — everything’s mostly great, right? Maybe it’s just a phase. Maybe this is what “newlywed” looks like.
Trust me, I get it.
But here’s the thing…
You deserve so much more than just to stay married.
I want your marriage to be legendary. For you and for your husband, but also for your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.
And the key? It’s not in trying harder or pretending the hard stuff isn’t there.
It’s actually in that tricky 10%.
That’s where the real growth happens. When you shine a light on what’s uncomfortable, the scary parts lose their power — and your marriage transforms.
Maybe it feels like this is all overkill.
After all, you’re so busy now.
And being married is really fun almost all of the time.
And anyway shouldn’t you just be able to work it out on your own?
But here’s the truth, from someone 15 years and 5 kids ahead, and after coaching over a hundred women just like you:
You don’t get more time.
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Now is when the patterns are being set.
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Now is when the foundation is still fresh.
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Now is the best time to invest in the marriage you really want.
It's pretty simple, and hugely powerful.
I'm with you every step of the way as you master the material that will change your marriage forever. This program is custom tailored for women in their first five years to have the biggest, longest-lasting impact in the shortest amount of time.
You get the personal guidance you need to apply this material in real time in YOUR marriage, with YOUR specific scenarios and questions.
Weekly Coaching Calls
You'll have three months (12 sessions) of weekly private sessions with me with notes to go over our key takeaways so all you have to do is show up available for growth. The sessions are held over Zoom and are 50 minutes long.
Course Access
Maximize your sessions with the addition of the full First Year Married Online Course. You'll have the course to learn and review the material so our sessions are clear to focus on implementation and personalization.
Personal Support
Don't be a stranger! Between sessions you can reach out via WhatsApp or email either to make notes for our next session or get between-session coaching (you'll get my reply within a day or two, max).
"Working with Kayla these past few weeks has given me tools to deal with things I’ve been trying to work on for years and years through therapy, self-help books, etc. In a short time, I feel like I’ve already made so much more progress!
She’s helped empower me to make changes in my thinking that I didn’t even realize I had any control over! I always just thought I had a ton of anxiety and that was it. She’s helped me recognize patterns and learn how to come up with my own positive thoughts.
She’s really brilliant but also funny, non-judgmental, and gives it over in a way that’s easy to understand and apply.
I’ve been working on these same issues for so many years that I really recognize the value here.
I consider this an investment. An investment in myself, my future relationships, my current relationships, and living empowered.
-Y, 1:1 Coaching Client
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Who is this course for?This course is for frum women in their first few years of marriage who want to build a strong, connected, and joyful relationship — not just get by, but really thrive. Whether things are mostly great or you’re already feeling stuck, this course gives you the mindset shifts and practical tools to navigate marriage with confidence, calm, and clarity. It’s especially helpful if you’re someone who wants to be intentional in your marriage, loves personal growth, and values working from the inside out.
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What is the schedule?This program is designed to fit into your life — no matter how full your schedule is. Each week, you’ll get access to the next class in the series. That means the course takes a minimum of 8 weeks to complete, giving you time to absorb and apply each concept at a steady pace. Taking that space between classes turns this from just learning about marriage into actually transforming how you show up in it. You’ll keep access to all the material for as long as the program is active, so you can revisit it anytime you want a refresher or a boost.
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What if I’m not in my first year of marriage anymore?This course was created to support the unique transition of shana rishona — that first season of marriage where everything is new, and the foundation for your future is being built. That will always be the heart of this program. And still... as Rabbi Akiva Tatz explains, what used to take one year can now take closer to ten. If you're still in that newlywed headspace — or want to revisit it with more clarity and intention — you're in the right place. Many women have told me they feel like they “missed” their shana rishona — because of school, work, life events, or even Corona — and they’re ready now to reclaim it. I believe you absolutely can. Even women years into marriage have taken this course and found it deeply impactful — because the work we do here is timeless. If you're looking for more personal support alongside the course, I offer private coaching to help you take this work even deeper.
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I’m getting married really really soon! Can't I just start already?Trust me, you have enough on your mind right now just getting ready for your wedding and settling into your new life. As much as I’d love to work with you right away, I know the best thing for YOU is to use this course AFTER the initial flurry of excitement has calmed and you’re in more of a “real world” life situation. Join us when you've hit (at least) your one month anniversary!
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Things are going great so far– do I really need this course?That’s amazing to hear — and honestly, this course is perfect for you. It’s not just for fixing problems. It’s for women who want to be intentional, build something truly lasting, and create a marriage that gets better year after year. Sometimes the challenges aren’t in the marriage itself, but in the things around it — like family dynamics, money, work stress, or personal expectations. This course helps you build the mindset and tools to navigate all of it with more clarity and confidence. If the message of the course resonates with you and you’re excited to invest in your marriage now, while things are already good — that’s the ideal time to jump in.
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How long will I have access to the course?You have access to the course for as long as I'm running the program. (In the internet world, that's called "lifetime access.") Though I'm not currently planning on it, if I ever choose to take it down, I will make sure you have plenty of notice to work through or review any material you need.
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I’m not a newlywed but I love this coaching stuff. Is this for me?While this course is tailored for newly married Jewish women, many of the principles and tools are valuable at any stage of marriage. If you're interested in accessing this material, you're welcome to enroll in the course. If you're seeking more personalized support, I also offer private coaching sessions. These one-on-one sessions provide individualized guidance to address your unique circumstances and goals. You can learn more about private coaching and schedule a consultation here.
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Will this program work with my internet filter?This program works with most filters, sometimes with some inital setup (ie, asking for certain sites to be opened). If you can access this page, you should be fine. You'll also get access to a call-in number where you can listen to the classes by phone.
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Does my enrollment include my husband?There is something very powerful about working on your marriage on your own–it allows you to see your own behavior and reality in a new way, which is why this is not designed to be a couples’ program. However, you absolutely can share what you're learning, your takeaways, or simply use the ideas as conversation starters with your husband!
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Is this course only for Orthodox Jewish women?This course is grounded in a Torah-based understanding of marriage, integrating insights from both Jewish teachings and contemporary coaching methodologies. It's designed for women who view marriage as both a profound gift and an avenue for personal growth. Women from all levels of observance are warmly welcomed. If you're wondering whether the course aligns with your personal values and beliefs, please don't hesitate to reach out via the contact form on our website. I'm here to assist you in determining if this program is the right fit for your journey.
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Can I give the course as a gift to someone?Absolutely! When you go to the payment page, you'll be given the option to send the course as a gift. Way to go on being an awesome gift-giver!
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What if I want more support while I go through the course?If you’re the kind of person who thrives with more personal guidance, accountability, and someone to talk things through with — you might love adding private coaching to your experience. With coaching, we meet weekly to work through what’s coming up for you in real time, and apply the course material directly to your unique marriage and personality. It’s a powerful way to fast-track your growth and feel fully supported every step of the way. Click here to learn more about private coaching or schedule a free consultation to see if it’s the right fit.
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I’m a kallah teacher/Rebbetzin/seminary teacher and I’m on board with your mission! How can I help?Thank you! Please help by spreading the word to your former students, email lists, and WhatsApp groups–wherever you communicate! If you’d like a flyer, you can reach out to jessie@kaylalevin.com for something easy to send.
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I’m a kallah teacher/Rebbetzin/seminary teacher and I want to learn this material so I can teach it to my kallahs. Can I take the course?Absolutely! I’d be honored to have you in the course, but please hear me out on one thing–it’s so so so important that women are given the message that the main work happens AFTER they are married. You know better than I do how distracted and idealistic a kallah is. It’s very hard to truly believe all this material will be personally relevant. Once they are “in the ring” and dealing with the day-to-day realities, they can apply this work on a whole new level (plus, they aren’t left feeling like they failed because they didn’t get a picture perfect happily-ever-after right off the bat!). I leave it to your judgment what to include in your classes, what to “tease,” and what not to–and I hope you’ll encourage your kallahs to plan to take this course as a first step into a lifetime of growth and learning about improving her shalom bayis.